20yearsavi
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posted on 02-07-2006 at 14:00 |
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experienced or not?
I was wondering which would be better, having an experienced guy for my first time or experience your first time together( with attraction/love)?
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Natrualbeauty
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posted on 02-07-2006 at 23:34 |
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Both maybe adventures
I think it's better with an experience guy that you love.Because you don't want you and him to not know what to do it.Maybe it would be fun wit another virgin you both can explore each other for the first time.But I say experience guy.
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22yearguyvirgin
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posted on 02-08-2006 at 00:14 |
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virgin
This is just my opinion because this is kind of what Im looking for but I think that it would be more special for you to be with another virgin on your first time. First of all I think it would be a good way for you to make sure he is not just after you for sex. Secondly it is the exploration of each other that makes it all the more special. All those people who just look for someone to loose their virginity to kind of make it seem mechanical and that just doesn't sound very appealing to me. As far as the not knowing what to do, a little research can fix that. I mean a lot of more expierenced guys still can't make it any better for you. The main thing is to find a guy that cares enough about you to make it special for you and not just try to satisfy himself.
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20yearsavi
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posted on 02-08-2006 at 10:58 |
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virgins together
the one thing Im worried about is that it could be very uncomfortable and awkward. its a very confusing thing to think about.
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22yearguyvirgin
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posted on 02-08-2006 at 14:31 |
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comfortable
Finding a guy that you feel comfortable with is one of the most important things to consider, whether he is a virgin or not. You should feel comfortable sharing your entire self with him. As far as the awkwardness, thats what makes the exploration of each other all the better. It will be a learning experience not only for you but for him as well. You get a chance to learn what each one of you likes and dislikes. Thats part of why being comfortable with each other is so important. If one thing doesn't work you should be able to talk it out and try something else. I worry that being with a more experienced partner may not be a good thing as he will likely be a little more forceful and you may not be as comfortable since a lot of people feel insecure because their partner is more experienced.
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